Hey, Sis! Welcome.
I’m so glad you’re here. And let me tell you—this isn’t an accident. You landed here for a reason.
Maybe you’re here because…
You’re tired of being the “strong one” but don’t know what breaking free actually looks like.
You’ve carried challenge after challenge on your shoulders, wondering when it’s finally your turn to win.
You’ve been told to just keep going, but inside, you feel like you’re barely holding it together.
You want more for yourself, but self-doubt and past struggles keep whispering, “You’ll never figure out how.”
Sis, I see you. Because I’ve been you.
But let me let you in on something…
Empowerment through resilience? Sounds like an oxymoron, right?
Even science is finally catching up to — resilience is not just about being strong. It’s about learning how to rise, rebuild, and renew — and it’s a skill you can develop.
Psychologists say resilience isn’t something you either have or don’t — it’s something you can build, practice, and grow.
It’s not just about bouncing back — it’s about learning to adapt, heal, and thrive even after life has knocked you down.
So let me say this plainly:
You are not meant to just survive—you are meant to thrive.
Your story isn’t just one of struggle—it’s one of victory.
You don’t have to figure it all out alone. I got you and there’s a whole Resilience Squad waiting to journey with you.
Let’s redefine resilience together!
For the woman who’s been everything
to everyone else —
it’s time to choose yourself.
Who is Tosombra Adecia?
A woman who turned pain into power — and now guides others to do the same.
Who am I?
I once wrote a poem with this same title when I was 18:
I am a queen.
One like never before seen.
Black.
Beautiful.
Strong and wise.
My body’s not the only thing that can mesmerize.
Words of wisdom flowing from my lips,
Surely will take your eyes from my hips;
Up here because you need to know this.
My bloodline is thick with
Warriors.
Healers.
Mothers.
And every powerful being in between.
I am intricate.
Pragmatic.
Divine.
I am serene.
I am all that I desire to be.
Because true power lives in me.
And then, Sis—life happened… a lot.
So much that I forgot my own words.
For years, I thought I had lost my way. But now I know—it was all part of the journey.
Because how can someone guide you through places they’ve never been before?
I know the dark places you’ve been in. I know what it feels like to be stuck, exhausted, and unseen.
I know—because I’ve been there too.
One of my favorite quotes by Rumi says:
“The wound is where the light gets in.”
It reminds me that even in our hardest, most painful moments, transformation is possible.
Just like a seed needs the darkness of the soil to break open and reach for the light, we, too, find our resilience, our strength, and our power in adversity.
And Sis, you don’t have to navigate it alone.
I’ve worn many hats and sharpened many skills along the way.
But the most valuable thing I’ve learned? How to rise.
And now, I want to help you do the same.
Explore the services I offer and let’s start your journey today!
“Science says resilience grows stronger when you have support.” So Sis, why are you still doing it alone?”
If you’re tired of struggling to keep it all together — let me show you what it looks like to heal, grow, and thrive with someone in your corner.
Words Are My Legacy
Healing, Empowerment, and Real Conversations through Books, Blogs & Weekly Letters
Author of Transformational Books
- Princess Lizzie Learns Manners (For young girls building confidence)
- Princess Lizzie Wears Hearing Aids (For children navigating challenges)
- Hey Sis: The Transformational Journal for Empowered Living (For the woman ready to heal & grow)
- The Value of Your Scars (For those learning to turn pain into power – coming June 2025!)
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A weekly love letter for women on the journey from surviving to thriving. Encouragement, resilience, and real conversations delivered straight to your inbox.
I’ve always loved writing — as a way to release, to empower, to heal, to entertain, and to remind us that words hold power. But beyond all of that, writing is how I leave my legacy.
In 2020, when I became extremely ill with COVID for nearly 30 days — isolated and alone in my room — I had a moment that changed my life.
When I was finally strong enough to leave my room, I found my daughter sitting in the living room. As I hugged her and asked how she was holding up, she broke down crying and said:
“Mom, I thought you were going to die.”
In that moment, holding her, I realized tomorrow isn’t promised
to any of us.
And I asked myself:
“If that had been my last day, what legacy would I have left for my children?”
The answer was hard to face. I knew I hadn’t yet lived out my dreams or shared my voice fully.
So I made a promise to myself — that my dreams would not die with me.
I vowed to publish my first children’s books, and to use my words to create a legacy I could be proud of — etched in paper, and entangled in the minds and hearts of readers… forever.
Since then, I’ve been committed to writing words that heal, words that empower, and words that remind others of their worth.
From children’s books to my upcoming book The Value of Your Scars (coming June 2025), to my Hey Sis Weekly reflections, I’ve learned that sharing my words not only heals me but helps others heal, too.
Sometimes we are the last ones to see our own light.
Let me take you back to a moment when I was being honored,
and didn’t even realize they were talking about me…
What Clients Say
“I don’t know how Tosombra knows the things she knows, but I am thankful for her guidance. She’s helped me level up in so many ways.”
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Past Survivor, Now A Thriver
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“Your words are so inspiring—I look for them every day.”
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Rise. Lead. Thrive. You Are Ready.
You have carried much. You have endured, rebuilt, and risen—again and again. But now, Sis, it’s time for more.
✨ More than surviving.
✨ More than waiting for permission.
✨ More than shrinking in spaces that were never meant to hold your power.
Your resilience is real. And science shows that resilience isn’t just about surviving—it’s about growing stronger, wiser, and more empowered through adversity (American Psychological Association). But so is your radiance.
If you’re ready to step into the fullness of who you are—to lead, to build, to become—let’s walk this journey together.
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I’ll be right here—waiting for you on the other side of resilience.
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